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July 28, 2007, 8:49 PM
i dun wanna flood the tagboard, so here's my piece.ok its true that no one volunteered to help terry, and i dun think they were obliged to do so. terry, if people promised you, then it makes sense if you are pissed with them for going back on their word. but if you hold grudges when elisabeth poured out to you and you didnt complain but she showed displeasure when you did, its neither party's fault. firstly, you were willing to hear her out. if you were not sure, you needn't have done so. secondly, its you who was in trouble, and for all everyone cares, they might have to do the 50 questions too, together with you. everyone will be and is tired after a long day. if you had approached others for help, including me, i would have rendered help, like i did to afiqah. at least i provided her with one question. and believe it or not, i had a few more but didnt mention to afiqah. i thought you might need help and kept them for you. you didnt approach me, and so i didnt voice my ideas. well i admit that i sometimes find terry's behaviour irritating, but i'm sure he feels the same way too. i did approach him for help and depended on him for solutions to certain problems before, and he was even my source of humour before. so terry, if you are pissed with me for not rendering help, i can only apologise. its both our fault. you didnt call or sms me for help, and neither did i offer to do so. sorry. elisabeth, no one completely understands another person. our parents and best friends included. i think that no one hates you, or is pissed off by your behaviour. but everyone has a time when everything doesnt go their way. everyone will appear irritating to another person at least once, including me. i'm sure i've pissed off MANY others before. it all boils down to understanding. i suppose if we all forgive and forget, all this misunderstanding will clear up fast enough. i know i sound like i'm a pro and have much experience in this field and am just trying to show off. well this is what i think. if i've got some of the concepts wrong, i apologise. well i dun want to blame anyone, but i think all this started because we are not helpful enough. there seems to be this restriction inside us that forbids us to go all out to help one another. claim as we might, we have never gone ALL OUT to help someone like classmates. we have not realised the bond. at least i have not. not deep enough though. sorry to anyone whom i have once offended and held a grudge with. forgive me. `vicki |